In this 2nd musing, I know that I could probably write volumes about the week but I will try to give you the Reader’s Digest version and provide some of the highlights.
Day 2 was our longest day. 125 km to Adolphustown. For me and many others, the last 20 km was the most difficult. That is when, again, as I did last year, I started to wonder what I was doing on a bike pedalling my butt to Montreal. I knew it was the physical and emotional challenges and a cause I believed in, so I continued on pedaling, still complaining, and dreading the fact that upon arrival in Adolpustown, Mark will have found a camping area on the other side of the camp ground. To our surprise, (thank you Steve Bulloch) our bins had been placed in a shaded area within an easy "stumbling" distance to the trucks. There was only one thing on my mind. Bathing suit and a plunge into the lake where my body cried out "thank you, thank you, thank you". There was no way that I was going to attempt pitching tent without cooling down and then consuming a very strong libation. With that behind me and my body rejuvenated, I pitched my palace for the 2nd night.
The highlight of the day was a planned meeting at the Glenora Ferry, with a friend who I had not seen for many years. My greeting at the Ferry was Frances Lekes, her husband and son perched on the wall with a sign "Harvey M". A hug and a kiss, a few pictures and a quick 15 minute catch up provided enough stimulation to finish the last 20 kms.
After dinner, our team sat around our imaginary fire pit blowing up 600 red ballons for our ride to Kingston on the following day…..Red Dress Day. It was interesting to watch the creative juices flow as we added ballon after balloon to what can only be described as a plethora to be seen on the road on Tuesday.
Day 3 was our shortest day….51 km to Kingston….and a day that we were all looking forward to. Dressed in as much red as we could muster up, complimented by the red balloons, we wondered if Kingston, and the towns enroute were ready for us. Dawn Smith, one of our team leaders was outstanding in a long classic Victorian style red dress and knee high leather boots with 3" heels. Now talk about a challenging ride, but she did it…..and her feet reminded her of her accomplishment the next day.
No camp site. No tents. We had accomodation in the residences at Queen’s University. The thoughts of showers and a mattress for the night was more than inviting (hate to admit it, but I enjoy the limited camping). I was fortunate enough to have Chris, Kathryn, Noah and a few close friends join us in Kingston to celebrate our grandson Noah’s 5th birthday and to see my one and only, Miss Conception, perform at Stages Night Club…..another fundraiser for the rally.
After an afternoon around the pool at the Confederation Hotel, we shuffled off to Grizzly Grill for dinner. 10% of the food costs were being donated back to the rally. The turnout was great and Noah was really excited because he thought that we were all there to honour his day…..after all, why would a restaurant full of people sing happy birthday to him. With Noah back in his hotel room with his Momma, we moved across the street to Stages nightclub.
The venue was typical of a vaudeville club that supposedly had a capacity for 800 people. A large stage with a second stage behind it provided a space that Kevin Levesque, our Miss Conception took full advantage of to entertain the estimated crowd of just over 300. He performed as Liza, Bette, Lion King, Lady Gaga and a host of others……..sang live…..cart wheeled across the stage….danced up and down the aisles and on the bars……and consumed a copious amount of shooters provided by the audience……..and as always, gave it his very best………a stellar performance that delighted everyone there. With 4 sets and dancing in between, the spirits were high as we headed back to Queen’s for a night’s sleep. Everyone agreed that the evening was well timed and well needed midway through the ride…….and one that should become a tradition. The combined proceeds from Grizzly and the tips donated by Miss Conception raised just over $1700.
Day 4 110 km from Kingston to Johnstown, not to be mistaken with Jonestown LOL. The day started with recognition of riders who achieved gold shirt status…..raising over $6000. We were now into an easier ride…..fewer hills……with amazing views of the Thousand Islands. We had some rain during the lunch break but it certainly did not dampen the spirits. Tonight was the night of the talent show where teams were invited to perform. Well what can I say? Produced and directed by Mark & Dre, we delighted the audience with yet another award winning performance……..and yes, we awarded ourselves the gold statue.
Day 5 Another 108 km from Johnstown to Lancaster. The highlights included the stunning Long Sault Parkway, the Dairy Queen and the LCBO in Lancaster, camping amongst the tall trees in the Glengarry Campground and then the Beach Candle Ceremony which provided us with an opportunity to reflect on our week, remembering those who are no longer with us and those who are living with and affected by HIV and AIDS and other illnesses……keeping the flame of hope alive to one day see a world that is free of HIV and AIDS and all other illnesses.
Riders were invited to share their life experiences with everyone…..and many did. Gay and non-gay…..those with HIV/AIDS and those affected by HIV/AIDS. A number of riders wore white T-shirts with the red ribbon in support of someone they knew or to identify themselves as being positive. The ceremony and the sharing of personal experiences in this safe environment, allowed other riders to also share their feelings on a more personal basis during the rest of the ride.
The confirmation that the stigma of HIV/AIDS is still very much present and highly destructive to those who are living with and or affected by HIV/AIDS was extremely disturbing. Heightened understanding and awareness is a must if the stigma is to be eliminated, which is why events like the bike rally are so important. The fundraising activities of all riders goes a long way to heighening the awareness.
Day 6. 102 km from Lancaster to Montreal. With some strong head winds, this was not an easy ride. We gathered in Lachine and waited our final 13 km into downtown Montreal. As with the ceremony of the night before, the emotions were building. In single file, many rode quietly while others cheered with excitement, each wearing our purple jerseys and our pins with red ribbons. In Old Montreal, we grouped in 4′s, for our final leg to Emille Gamelin Park. With a police escort, we were greeted by a cheering and applauding crowd of friends, family and onlookers. The physical challenges of the ride had been met………and the financial goal, beating the record of the 10th anniversary of $1,208,000 was also achieved.
I am so proud of my two girls…..Shana and Nicole. They volunteered for Road Safety and gave it their most. With daily costume changes…….constant cheering (Shana was almost without voice by the end) and encouragement to every rider that passed them, their support and the support of the rest of the Road Safety team was immeasureable. Their love & personal support ot my efforts over the past 2 years have been phenomenal and very much appreciated.
Our fearless team leaders, Dawn Smith and Mike Smith…..no not sister and brother or husband and wife…..thank you for leading the Buttcycles to the end. Buttcycles….thank you for making this another memorable week. I also want to thank everyone for the encouragement and support provided over the past 2 years of my participation in the Friends For Life Bike Rally. In 2009, we, together raised $28,750, and to date for 2010, we together have raised $30,030……a total of $58,780. It is only with your support that the services of the Toronto PWA will be provided to those in need.
Warmest regards,
Harvey
P. S. I still have preferred tickets to the 2nd night performance of Priscilla, Queen of the Desert, The Muscial…..Wednesday, October 13th. Click on the following link or copy and paste it into your browser for tickets http://www.homeswithus.com/4a_form.php?record_id=16454 Tickets are $125 of which $35 is donated to the 2010 Friends For Life Bike Rally with a tax receipt issued to you. Similar priced tickets through Ticket King are $115, which includes the service charges.
In preparation for next year’s rally, I have set aside 500 preferred tickets to Billy Elliot for Thursday, March 31st. Tickets do not go on sale to the general public until late September but you can reserve your seats now. Pricing is also $125 (Ticket King is $115) with a $35 donation to the 2011 Bike Rally and a tax receipt issued accordingly.
Click on the following link or copy and paste it into your browser http://www.homeswithus.com/4a_form.php?record_id=17576 Plan now for upcoming birthday and Christmas gifts.